What do you do when someone you love begins questioning—or even walking away from—their faith? The growing movement of “deconstruction” is leading many to rethink their beliefs about Jesus and Christianity, creating deep shifts in churches and families. Some begin this journey after experiencing hurt, while others wrestle with Scripture’s moral teachings, searching for a belief system that feels less restrictive.
The impact of this movement is deeply personal. If someone close to you is deconstructing, you may be filled with uncertainty and heartbroken. How do you respond in love and truth? How can you rebuild trust, navigate difficult conversations, and keep the door open while pointing them back to the hope of the Gospel? These are not easy conversations but take heart—there is hope.
If someone close to you is struggling with their faith and distancing themselves, we invite you to listen to this clip the Haven Today series, When a Loved One Deconstructs. David Wollen and Alisa Childers share thoughtful insights on how to approach these conversations with truth and compassion, keeping the door open for meaningful connection centered on Jesus.
The deconstruction movement may be growing, but God’s Word remains steadfast “and we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them.” Romans 8:28
The Deconstruction of Christianity
What is it? Why is it destructive? How should we respond?
A movement called ‘deconstruction’ is sweeping through our churches and it is affecting our loved ones. It has disrupted, dismantled, and destroyed the faith of so many, and this book can help you not only understand what’s happening but also stand your ground and respond with clarity and confidence.
In this groundbreaking book, authors Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett will help you understand what deconstruction is, where it comes from, and why it is persuasive to some. They will equip you to think through the main issues surrounding faith deconstruction and explore wise, loving ways to respond from a biblical worldview.
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