“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.”
Philippians 2:3-4
For a young man and woman anticipating their wedding, the word marriage evokes visions of a wonderful future together. Yet that same word for many digs up painful memories of shattered dreams and broken promises. The Lord’s love for His own is pure and lasting. He is eternally committed to abide with us and provide for us as He transforms our hearts to reflect His Spirit.
It didn’t take long after our wedding for my husband and me to realize that romantic love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy marriage. We were young and had begun our journey together, each looking to the other for the completeness that only Jesus can give. We sought to be served rather than serve.
God has patiently worked in us through the years. He desires that we extend to each other the same mercy, love, and forgiveness that Jesus extended to humankind on the cross. His Spirit reminds us that the marital union is to mirror Christ’s relationship with the church. This truth compels all of us as believers to seek peaceful, God-honoring ways to do life together.
It didn’t take long after our wedding for my husband and me to realize that romantic love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy marriage. We were young and had begun our journey together, each looking to the other for the completeness that only Jesus can give. We sought to be served rather than serve.
God has patiently worked in us through the years. He desires that we extend to each other the same mercy, love, and forgiveness that Jesus extended to humankind on the cross. His Spirit reminds us that the marital union is to mirror Christ’s relationship with the church. This truth compels all of us as believers to seek peaceful, God-honoring ways to do life together.
Scripture Focus
Philippians 2:1-11
Insight
“Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives? … You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy.” Micah 7:18
Bible In A Year
- Ecclesiastes 1-2
- Psalm 63
- John 2-3